I can’t imagine anyone who hasn’t heard some version of Aldous Huxley’s words:
Experience is not what happens to a person. It is what a person does with what happens to him.
So, we’ve heard the words. It’s not what happens to you, it’s what you do with what happens to you that matters. However, do we live them? In the midst of a challenge do you ask yourself what lesson is imbedded in the mess? I can’t say I always view a tough time as a gift. Yet, in retrospect, my defining moments have come from difficult, demanding and often daunting moments. So, today, how about if we choose to practice non-judgment of whatever happens. And, responsibly translate those experiences into something beneficial . . . and let time help us make even more sense of it.