Wednesday Wisdom

Seed tomorrow with wise living today

We bury dad this morning. Memories laced with stories keep those who have passed alive in our hearts. As I breathed in every picture of him and the family placed around the funeral home last night, my core was continually drawn the one of him, as our tribe’s elder, snuffing out the candles we light on the Christmas tree every year. Lit from the youngest to oldest, while singing of Silent Night, each little ignited glow is a sacred gesture.

In the middle of that memory it struck me that each individual Flame will be inevitably be extinguished, and the silence of our physical absence could be deafening or inaudibly fleeting. The space of the hush may depend on the observed purpose and meaning of our days and how we chose to act on them, how people felt in our presence because of those intentions, the generosity of our Spirit and the kindness of our encounters.

Benjamin Franklin wrote this about his observations:

Some people die at 25 and aren’t buried until they’re 75.

Person after person last night noted the fullness of dad’s 96 years. As long as we’re still breathing, it seems a good idea to actually live. I am grateful to come from the tribe I call family and equally as blessed for those who surround me as friends. And, I thank them for helping me make the  days matter. Nostrovia to a great life!

 

Life is calling . . . Today’s the day . . . Make this moment matter!!
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Wednesday Wisdom

Seed tomorrow with wise meaning today

Many celebrate Christmas. For some it’s glorious and full of celebration. For others it’s non-existent, annoying, or downright depressing. Each year, Norman Rockwell pictures of what the holiday season could be roll in my mind. And, it’s a season I adore, since it’s full of family, friends, food and festivities. In moments of inevitable family stress, I try to remember the advice of Virginia Satir, renowned author and social worker:

Life is not the way it’s supposed to be, it’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

Our dad, Peter Semonick, passed away at 96 years old Monday. Engaged in the normal commotion and coping, this message comes a day late. Reflecting upon his life, I would simply add:   Live as thought you mean it.

For those of you who celebrate this holiday, MERRY, MERRY CHRISTMAS! And, to all, a very Happy, Hopeful New Year!

 

Life is calling . . . Today’s the day . . . Make this moment matter!!
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Seed tomorrow with wise value-add today

We’re working in Grand Cayman Island this week (yay, us!!). On our way to the island, flight attendant, Val Kegel offered a flyer, front and back jammed packed with enthusiastic recommendations from departing passengers’ for restaurants, happy hours, shopping, scuba excursions, transportation, fishing charters, and the list goes on. Because of the information, we enjoyed a Tuesday night special of all you can eat delicious lobster down the street from our hotel. Her response to a passenger who was overwhelmed by how much work she puts into this:

Just look around, each of us has daily opportunities to be value-added in each others’ lives!  And, when you do, it gives you joy.

I will be visiting Val’s website: PassengerPicks@Gmail.com to find a way to thank her and writing Delta to loudly brag on her. In a world too full of self-absorption, how refreshing to experience a lively spirit who finds joy in helping others.

 

Life is calling . . . Today’s the day . . . Make this moment matter!!
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Wednesday Wisdom

Seed tomorrow with wise moments today

For many, the Holiday Season means family, friends, food, and festivities. Every year, as they approach, I remind myself to be more mindful, to increase my attention and be more present to what is in front of me. As Dr. Seuss reminds us:

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory.

This season, may we embrace our moments and create memories that make us smile when we look back upon them.

 

Life is calling . . . Today’s the day . . . Make this moment matter!!
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Wednesday Wisdom

Seed tomorrow with wise spiriting today

Here we are, approaching the end of 2015. What a good month to reflect, envision, plan, anticipate, and begin forward moving action. Once you have clarity about your plans for 2016, it would be wise to protect them by being selectively sharing them with others. Otherwise, expect to be met with disapproval, snickers, “ya buts,” and perhaps outright sabotage. Albert Einstein must have experienced push back since he wrote:

Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.

When envisioning possibilities, our dreams seldom take us to the unexceptional. This month offers us an opportunity to sit with ourselves to get serious about who we want to become and identify those who will support our success. Times a ticking . . .
Life is calling . . . Today’s the day . . . Make this moment matter!!
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